The Logistics of International Friendships

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A few months ago,
(before I got ill),a good friend of mine, Ivana Eda-Weiner, took an extended trip to Sudan to care for her aunt. After a not-as-lively-as-we-thought community pride dance, we said our final farewells. Three days later, we had our first video call after her departure, along with our friend, Weinera Shucker. Weinera and I went to school together and sat together at lunch. Along with our friends, Richard Butt, the master of a local property, George Bation, and Hue Mongous, we started a group chat on skype. It died after a while, but Weinera and I continued weekly calls with Ivana. However, things became more complicated later in the year. After I could no longer attend school, our calls between Ivana, Weinera and I became fewer and further between. I called both of them individually, and they called each other, but not frequently. However, we hope to rekindle our friendship before Ivana's return.
These are some pictures of Dick, Weinera, Ivana and I at the Pride dance.


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